Making Money Online by Begging – Can You Strike It Rich by Asking for Cash?
Posted on July 21st, 2008 by Jim under Blogging Tricks, Make Money Online
Sometimes making money on the internet requires nothing more than asking for it. With all of the constant banter about expensive pay-per-click campaigns, affiliate marketing and advertising revenue, wouldn’t it be nice if you could simple launch a site that asked for donations?
What is interesting, is that begging for money, in many cases, has worked out to thousands of dollars in profits. As it so happens, a lot of people have loose change in their PayPal accounts and respond quite well to a friendly cry for help. While there are probably a few more scams out there than legitimate needs for extra funding, if you understand what works… begging can make you rich with little effort and almost zero downside.
The Examples
Before I explore just what I am going to attempt, I think that it is important to look toward some more noteworthy examples of people making money by begging on the internet. Perhaps the most popular example is the Million Dollar Homepage. Essentially, a motivated (and very clever) student decided to sell 1,000,000 blocks of ads at $1 apiece on the front page of his website to raise money for college and other activities. By making it simple, fast, and profitable (cheap advertising?)… the founder Alex Tew has made his mark on the industry by selling out every last spot in record time. There have been tons of clones of this project, some have worked, most have failed… but the idea is ingenious nonetheless.
One of these “beg for money” websites that I more recently heard about is the Save Karyn project, where a women who was massively in debt ($20,000) decided to openly seek help on the internet in the form of
donations. Despite the poor quality of the actual website, she managed a whopping $13,323.08 in outside donations though the internet. Not bad, eh?
Forming An Idea That Works
You’ve seen what’s been done before, but how exactly can you make your own website that is successful like those that have been tried? Your first step needs to be an idea. The most important thing to consider is that your need should be something commonplace and real. Make it something reasonable, because nobody is going to donate to Joe Schmo so you can have some more beer money… or because you want to buy yourself a new yacht. People respond to need, so if you show them that you need money to go to college, or you are in debt and need financial assistance, you are much more likely to get some love right off the bat.
Setting Up a Personal Goal
Once you have your idea, you need to solidify in your mind exactly how much money that you will need. Nobody is going to donate to a website that is just asking for money, you need to have a set amount (like $1,000) that you are shooting for. Why? It creates an emotional desire to help.
I think that the most important aspect of any website that sells itself out for donations is the progress bar. People want to be updated on
how much has been donated so far, and how much is still needed. A nice graphic on the top of the page would be the most preferable measure to take here, as visitors and potential donators will want to see that they are making a difference.
Don’t Integrate It, Separate It
One thing that has failed time and time again is the donation integration. What do I mean by this? If you have a website, don’t try to include on top of it all a donation/begging page… it’s much better to keep these things separate. I recommend setting up a new website, which you can then link to and advertise from your main blog or website as you wish. What will NEVER work is simply adding a sidebar widget that offers $1 donations through PayPal. You simply aren’t going to get a lot of attention, as people aren’t coming to your website thinking about your money troubles. If you can’t separate your other websites from your begging website, the emotional pull towards giving cash will never exist… and you won’t be successful.
One recent example of the integration attempt that I have seen was from Chetan on The WWW Blog. He started out with a fantastic goal. A new iPhone? That’s practical, current (topical) and not too much to ask for. While this donation frenzy started off on the right foot, I feel that things started to lose momentum from the get-go, as he tried to simply integrate it with his blog. This isn’t what you want to do, and I feel that separating the call-for-cash and the blog would have made a big difference.
My Idea for a Donation Website
Since I’m a college student, it’s going to be very easy for me to exploit the emotional pull of a donation page, I’m not even going to pretend that I am being clever here. Of course, this won’t go live for at least a week due to other projects, but I intend on launching a website geared on buying a refurbished LCD TV for my upcoming semester
at college. I feel like this is a reasonable request, and since a lot of my visitors have been in college at some point, I wouldn’t be too surprised if this idea works.
So essentially, this is going to be a paid experiment, where I am going to attempt to collect something like $400 in order to buy a standard rate LCD TV. My basic logic follows that I will create my own website and offer free links and advertising to anyone that donates. I think the best route is to offer to write a blurb about each website that donates, with more words going to heavier donations. Offering something is very important, and ad space is the most obvious ploy. By spending $10 on a domain name and a quick website to track the progress of my donations, I hope to reach my target within a month.
Bottom Line: Websites that openly seek donations have been some of the most profitable ventures on the internet. The major upside is that there is really no downside risk, as you aren’t paying for much more than a domain name and hosting. The downside can be that things can be slow moving, and you might drive yourself crazy before reaching a goal. There have been literally hundreds of failed attempts to turn a quick profit, but I remain optimistic in the potential behind “begging” websites.
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ddoesn’t zac jonhson have a site like the ones you mentioned?
Here in Portugal there is a blogger that is asking donations to help support his wedding. he integrated it his own websitee, with no considerable results.
Yes, I believe Zac has one called thetylerproject.com But the difference is that his website is only an experiment to see whether or not people wil give him money for no reason whatsoever.
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Don’t you mean Tyler Cruz for theTYLERproject.com? Not Zac?
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Well, I think asking for money only works on very informative non-profit websites like wikipedia or if they have a reduced set of ads. There are other similar way to make money online. I have a website where I should ask for donations but I have to think about it.
Check my blog, and my related posts: How to make money online
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A good example of this is here:
http://www.stickmanlabs.com/lightwindow/
He wanted to raise money from donations for a MacBook. (He’s the one that made lightwindow, a popular web app). He offers priority help to those that donate.
He used to have a big image in his sidebar about it, but it looks like its gone now. Dunno if he reached his goal or not.
Either, way. This is a cool idea, lol. I wanna see how you do this, it’ll give me ideas.
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I wouldn’t donate to you Jim.
This is an issue that sometimes pisses me off. And it’s people begging for money.
It’s ok for a person to ask for money if they want to go to college or they need money for food, but it damn makes me mad when someone asks for a donation when they want to buy a luxury, an “iphone” like chetan, or as you said a lcd tv.
Why would I want to donate money to Chetan so he can get himself an iphone? If he really wants an iphone he should get it himself or he should get a cheaper phone like the working middle class have.
Also, the reason why the million dollar homepage worked was because it was an original idea, and it had a good purpose. For the guy to pay for college. I don’t see any good purpose in a new tv or a brand new phone when cheaper appliances work just fine.
Just my 2 cents.
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Germz is absolutely right I have begged for money I swallowed mt pride for my children I am totally disabled and trying to get benefits I have gone thru my savings even sold my house to put a roof over my kids heads and food on the table.Well in 1 month I will be evicted I have no idea where my kids will go or will I go also I cant walk or use my right arm or hand.I have crohns disease and Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy.I guess I will be homeless and it makes me mad when someone wants a tv or a cell phone and those people are the ones that usually get what they want.And I even have said I would pay back anything that I would recieve as soon as I get my disability and still nothing.I pray everynight that I die in my sleep rather then be homeless and have my kids taken from me where is the justice in this world.
@ Germs: Ouch, kick me while I’m down!
I’m not saying that I’m just begging for money (although that’s what I’m really doing). Exchanging a donation for ad space is entirely reasonable, and can really be a cheap way for people to get some good exposure at the right price
This is a very cool idea. I remember seeing the million dollar page before, but I never thought of doing something like this myself.
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@Jim- Well I’d donate to you if you needed money for Penn state or food, but a high resolution tv… not gonna happen, when I myself don’t even have one.
Also, I’m sure you know this, but exchanging a donation (money) for adspace is called buying Ads. It’s like Google changing their prices and calling it a “donation” in order to get adspace.
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Man, would you believe I have seen someone do it at dp and got a very good response? well it really depends on how you style it…
very well said.. There should some style of asking donation or you will be kicked. Thewwwblog is doing a good work by offering some incentive in the form of link love.
I love your images, from where do you get ?
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It is my first time to see that milliondollarhomepage.com and I’m shocked. I can’t image that he earns $1,000,000 dollar with that just simple page.
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@Rajaie AlKorani: ohye! it is the tyler project. but that’s from tyler cruz and not zac johnson as i wrongly said
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I agree with Germz.
There’s enough shit going on in the world, real problems, not some college student’s ambition to get a lazy iPhone or LCD flatscreen.
Anyone with access to a computer can raise the money – work, not beg.
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@ Jason: Well I COULD work… haha, this is more for experimental purposes though. I’d love to see if I could make money from a project that quite frankly doesn’t deserve it. I think it’s definitely possible to raise money for a luxury item… so I’m going to try and prove you wrong here.
I get really mad about this subject myself as I think its pointless. The guy that was featured on JC’s website not too long ago that wanted to go to college. Thats ridiculous. I was accepted into UPenn but decided not to go there because I just couldn’t afford $160,000 over 4 years. I decided to go to a local university instead. People that say they were accepted into Oxford and such and can’t afford it, well dont go there. Don’t get into something or buy something you can’t afford. Learn to stay within your means. The whole idea of begging for money is ridiculous. Isn’t that why we have people like Suze Orman that hosts a show to help people get out of debt. Simple concept: Don’t wish for something you can’t afford whether its a new car, tv or a university education. If someone sponsors you for education, thats good and thats called SCHOLARSHIPS. Anyway, glad you posted about this because I’m fired up to blog now..LOL.. in a way you motivated me…I should read more often!
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@Jim: We are not saying you won’t be able to achieve it. We are saying that it’s not “fair” to do so, or you’d have to be an asshole to ask for money to buy a luxury when there are people with actual needs that need to be taken care of. Like mothers with no husband and 2 kids.
Or would you rather donate to Chetan so he can get himself an iphone, or would you donate a local poor kid who can’t afford to go to college? Anyone with a brain would donate to the poor kid, not the kid who wants a bran new iphone just cause his friends have one.
Anyone with a little marketing skill can make money online. If a person can’t work for money that they have to beg then they are not worthy to get money from others.
Look at illegal immigrants, they come to this country with nothing and end up building a life for themselves without even having the privileges Americans have.
All you need to raise money is ambition.
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Hey, i was looking on theses website as a friend said this was a good idea to help me ask (beg) for money to put down on a mobile home for my self and my kids. any ideas on how to do this ? We all have problems with money right now, I just need a little help from some one.
Thanks
Hayley
Hayley-
I’m not sure that this method would work for that. Simply put, begging for money on the internet can work for a low-cost investment… such as $500-$1000. I can’t recommend this to you for that purpose, but you could always use your computer to do freelance work such as writing in order to make some extra dough on the net.
Dear Jim The Net Fool
I am not a computer wiz more like a amateur I use to be a machinest/tool maker,but cant work anymore because of my disability.I am in dire need of financial needs untill my disability is approved.You mentioned something about working free lance from home.If you don’t have to be a computer wiz to do this I would really be greatfull if you have any information on this topic.I have looked and everything that I have found requires money to get started,and thats what I’m lacking right now.Thank You Very Much
@ Enkay: Isn’t UPenn the school for people who don’t get into Penn State?
I know what you mean though college is crazy expensive. And don’t even get me started on Suze Orman
I would like to start the Million Dollar Comment Project… where the people that see this comment give me 100 bucks each… think it will work?
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I actually heard Sara on a radio interview and she really cleaned up! This is great, but I agree with you that the marketing angle and back story has to be compelling.
Thanks,
JR
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Hehe didnt think you would mention this Jim. And Germz, its not that am just begging for money to buy an iphone. I was offering incentives like ad spaces to those who donated, so it cant be called just begging.
Interesting…
More touching story behind the site creations, then more money that we will be collected…no matter how about the appearance or the site utility.
But I think the utility is the plus point for this case
@jim – I think if someone like me was accepted into the Wharton school of business at upenn we wouldnt even think about Penn state. Just FYI
Also you really need brians threaded comments!
Do you think asking dollars for having a cup of coffee is also a kind of begging? I don’t think so…
@Chetan: Alright then, I will now call my adspaces “Donation spaces” and whoever wants to get in there has to give me a small donation.
@Enkay: I had a bad experience with that plugin so I wouldn’t recommed Jim to install it.
@Mr. Make Money online: If you need to ask for money to buy a cup of coffee then you are a hypocrite for saying you make money online.
Well if that’s what you think then why the hell don’t we all just quit our jobs and live off each other? Then everybody would be equal and no one would ever have to beg!
What you are saying it stupid. A beggar is a beggar, and just changing the word “Money” to “Coffee” or “Bread” won’t make any difference, you are still begging.
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@ Germz: I don’t see why exchanging a small donation for an ad space has to be begging for money. Ads aren’t donations, because in a donation by definition cannot get you something of consideration in return. True, I agree that Chetan’s website is mainly a donation-begging play, but we shouldn’t be generalizing
I guess you are right. Maybe someone needs to come up with a new word for that.
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I love you blog, i haven’t get anything from my blog (like
$$$). Maybe when you get a chance you could check out my blog, maybe you have suggestion ok i’m wating for you in my blog.tx
It’s not so much a matter of what you call it (”begging”, “donation” or whatever) but the motive behind it that pisses people off. Sure, it’s fine if you want to donate to help pay a site’s maintenance fees, but why stump up your hard-earned cash just cos someone wants the latest toy? At least dress it up a bit so it’s not so blatant
Online panhandling what ever floats your boat. on the other hand if some one donates to my site i like to thank them and give them something in return offer them a service if they need it. but if some one gives out of the goodness of there heart thats cool too.
Thanks for the link. Sounds like interesting read
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Hello,
I am also begging for money! Please help me out by coming to my website or donate some money to me.
Thank You
Ruben
I thought about doing this my self but I am not sure it would work for me..
What I thought about doing was putting my entire finance life on blog, and how I am trying to meet my goals. I would write articles just about my life in general. Currently I am deployed in IRAQ and I don’t make much money, but I am not sure how many people would want to read the blog.
I was kinda pondering the Idea of trying to save $100,000 for a house. I recently got a Army bonus for $15,000 which puts me on a good start. Should I just drop the idea?
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That’s a novel way to get rich quick!
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i thought this was called soliciting isnt that illegal?
Hello, i am trying to collect money for computer, I have no job and I need to get computer to make some translations at home and earn money. I found only job of a waitress and i get so little, that with that i can not cover even taxes and mostly have nothing to eat at home. Any some will do, please if you are willing to help and will send 20 dollars for instance, other people will send too and i will be able to collect. Computer that i can buy, costs approximately 200 USD, so hope to collect. Please, if you are willing to send any sum, any, contact me on my email, which is meocnebearseba@yahoo.com and i will give you my bank details, where you will be able to send money. I am girl, 27 years old. Live in Georgia.
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I need money for food and rent
I need $1 for food and $5 for rent.
is any body out there that can help me out in paying my fee
i have try all i can ,still i have been able get much for my settlement
total fee for feeding $275.
total fee for accomodation $500
total tuition fee left $1850
total fees all together is $2165
I have been online for 4 days looking for a way to (beg) for money. I actually need $2000.00 to pay for bills I am behind on. I work a full time job, but got behind and cannot get caught up. Interest on credit catds is making it even worse. The one thing that I have discovered is that everyone thinks you are (or I am) a bum for begging. I’m not. I’m just desparate. I wish you, or someone, could show me how to go about asking for help. I don’t know how to make a website and I’m not sure my hunger will let me wait that long anyway.
I sort of stumbled across this blog by accident. I had a goofy idea to become a millionaire by asking for money…period. The internet is huge…1.46 billion people?? I want to see if it’s possible.
Then I see all these people on here being holier than thou. Know what? If you think begging or asking for help or asking for an outright handout is wrong, aren’t you just too proud and pissy for not having thought about this yourself?? What do you or I have to lose by giving someone $1, $5, $10. etc to buy a TV, get rich or otherwise??? I’d love to be a part of a gig like that! To know it cost me $1 to make some dude a millionaire…who *&&^@#$*& cares!!! It’s a %$#@&^%$& dollar!!!
Anyhow, holier than thou’s can drop dead. If you want to donate to me, I’m serious about this million dollar thing. If you’ll leave me an email adress, I’ll keep you posted and I’ll donate HALF of the million to charity and email you the proof! Yeah, I keep 500k, but what the hell?! I think this is a perfect social experiment/pad my retirement at your expense type of project!
I’d love to be crucified/inundated with letters and email/slammed and/or congratulated on this endeavor. Pass this along to everyone you know. Let’s see if enough bleeding hearts/compassionate/stupid/just for s–ts and giggles people/curious folk respond to this challenge on the basis of ‘why the f–k not’!! Can it be done, or are the naysayers who liken this to begging, correct in saying that this is a really selfish, dumb, useless thing to do? We’ll see. I’m putting the word out all over the net!!!
If you think I’m a dick, oh well, drop dead. If you want to shove this in the face of pompous, proud, short sighted clods who don’t have the smarts or balls to do this, then please help out.
I’d better put a time limit on this experiment. Let’s give it 6 months…that will be July 19, 2009. HALF of what I make off of your donations in the next 6 months will go to charity…I believe ‘The United Way’ is a great umbrella charity. I will work on the ‘honor system’ and pledge to you that I will prove somehow in the end that I received X amount of cash and donated half. Any jerk off who says a beggar can’t be honorable can kiss my -ss!
I can be donated to on PayPal by using my email adress. I’ll send you a free e-recipe as a way of making the transaction legit. You can also send hate letters to this adress so you can bitch me out and I can delete you.
Thanks! Start sending money you bastards!
Cheers!
Kevin.
To the shithead who seems to think that begging for money is a good scheme. I dont care if you are asking for just a dollar for everyone that reads your blog. As you are trying to get rich off other people, it shows me what a low person you are and who had always been that way. you have always taken and never given back, so i wouldnt believe you would give to charity, not for a single second do i believe that. As a matter of fact you took from me 17 or so years ago and then again about 5 years ago. I consider you a user of all the human race and would do anything to to get yourself what you want. its all about Kevin Penhorwood, always has and always will be that way. By the way…you suck..bad bad memories. You know who this is!!
Hello,
I really need money to help pay my student loan. My loan is
very large and I can really use your help.
I work very hard in the financial industry over 50 hrs a week.
If anyone will please help me then email ryabla@hotmail.com.
I am looking for donations, email me if you can help or know
anyone else that can help me out.
Thank you for your time,
Ryan
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Got my first donation and my site has only been online for 2 days its a start .
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Hey everyone this website http://www.bailafamilyout.com is the real deal. They been around less than six months and I a member of the website. I found this website advertise on craigslist. I didn’t have $15 dollars to give away but since I was facing a utility shut off. I shoveled some snow to get the money. Some might think why should they pay to beg and I say…WHY NOT! The website is doing a service for you. Their advertising to donors to help you not them. And besides its a great way to eliminate scammers. Everyone knows a scammer is not going to pay to scam someone. BUT ANYWAY…I paid the $15 dollars and instead of just posting my story. I got an entire webpage similar to an myspace page to edit my story, add pictures, music, blog and more. Well back to the point…I say about one week after joining, I got about $100 in donations. By the second week I had a total of $932 more than enough to stop the shut-off and get my boys a few cloths. Its really a great website and I’m not saying that because I’m a member. So if you really need help I suggest you visit this website and think about joining. P.S. Join in on the live chat…hope to see you there.
Dear Shasha Talley
I to am stuck between rock and a hard place I’m totally disabled with three children,I’ve went thru my savings and had to sell my house for the money.I applied for disability and every state and federal benefit under the sun but it is taking forever for them to send me anything and im facing eviction if you could will you send me some information on what you did to get a website up.I am not very good on a computer and my right hand is allmost useless.But I would really appreciate the information my e-mail is kfisher26@tampabay.rr.com thank you very much.
Hiya!
I am 14 (almost) and I have a brother, whos 15, and a sister whos 17. We live with our grandma and she and my divorced parents are trying to afford to send my sister to college. In between all the money needed for her tuition and my parents debt, my dog Squee Marie and I kinda get lost in the shuffle. If you could send me and her a dollar or even change, I could afford to buy her supplies and me new clothes (goodness knows I need them.) I hate begging, but I really need this money and can’t think of any other way
. By the way, this is all 100% legitimate, and all 100% true. I can’t gureentee anything, I suppose, but it is all true.
Please, email me at sparkleydragon@hotmail.com and I will send you shipping information. Anything is better than nothing, and believe me Marie will be very thankful to get a new collar and not have to eat dollar store food!
i m in critical position please help me
i m sick i need money
Hello,
I really need money to help pay my student loan. My loan is
very large and I can really use your help.
I work very hard over 50 hrs a week.
If anyone will please help me then email dfhuy@yahoo.com.
I am looking for donations, email me if you can help or know
anyone else that can help me out.
Thank you for your time,
Jim
I am trying to pay for school and can’t get anymore student loans. I need 8000.00 to complete my degree, any help would be appreciated. I am not looking for someone to give me money without some payment plan to pay it back. I really need this money bad.
Pat
hello there i do not no if any one would read this or care you see i live in the uk.
i am 42 years old and alway work till now.
i lost my job and i try so hard to find a new one but with no look.
because i do not have a job i have no where to live to.
i am staying here thereand ever where.
and now my miss as gone to.
i meet her 5 year ago and fall so much in love with her.
i neeed to get her back in mylife and i no if i can sort some thing out shewill come back to me.
you see i love this woman and i dowhat i can to win her back.
i do not no if any one will help me or not.
but i got to try ever thing i can befor it is t late and she gone for good.
if i hadthe money i set m self up in cars and then i no i be ok but here no one will help me.
so i ust do not no what to do.
please if there is any one out there that as love that one and you no there the one then you no how i fell.
so if you can please help me in some way thank you for reading this and god bless dean
HELP ME PLEASE …
Hello my name is Ragan i live in New Zealand. I have had bad luck after bad luck . My partner and i have just had a baby boy .He is so beautiful such a cool little dude. We have been ripped off over $100.000 in the past 12 months and this has taken its toll .We are $30.000 behind in our morgage and will lose our home if we dont come up with this money by the 14 of may. Which is 9 days away. Im frecking out as have no idea how we are going to come up with this much money in such a short time. Is there anyone out there with a heart that can please help us . If so please email me at nirzara21@gmail.com
. We would be more than greatful . Thank you
Hi as you can see i’m in need but for my kid’s. Thier father was shot and killed in 2003. I went to houston to make thing’s better and it is so hared alone. I have no family here just me and my twin’s who are 13. They need shoes and clothes and i can’t afford to buy in the last 2 yrs. I am looking forward to working on google so that my son’s don’t be left out.I get food stamp’s but not until 11 which is after mother’s day.If you would like to contribute to us send money order to 5650 glenmont dr. apt r20 houston tx. 77081or go to my e-mail . thank you and god bless you all.
I wonder if anyone will donate anything at all. I know that I am wasting my time but my God said that ( you have not because you ask not) The hardest thing for me to do is to ask someone for help. Or to beg or what ever you want to call it. I am a prideful woman and tried doing everything on my own. Even down to changing the motor and transmission in my car myself because I didn’t have the money to pay someone else to fix it and I needed my car to get to work to care for my three children. Here’s my story. I was born and raised in a house( if you could call it that) with 12 siblings. An abusive father and a very frighten and passive mother that worked her butt of to care for thirteen children. I guess you say why did she have thirteen children. Well I’m talking about back in the days when birth control wasn’t free. My father was the type of man that didn’t understand what no meant. He just took what he wanted anytime he wanted. My childhood was aful. I was always afraid because I never knew when my father would go off. From the time that I was still a toddler I wanted an escape from my home. At the age of 15 I became pregnant by someone 21 years old and got married to him. By the time I was 20 I had three children and abandon by my husband. My youngest child was born disabled and I was told by doctors to put him in an institution and go on with my life which I refuse to do. I didn’t have a high school diploma because I quit school at fifteen to have a baby. I worked two low paying jobs just to keep my kids with a roof over their heads and a little food on the table. I did what ever I had to do for my children survival. It was a hard job alone but very rewarding. My children are all grown up now and although they may not have had everything that they wanted growing up, They had everthing they needed. The most important thing was lots of love from me. I am getting older now and I’m disabled. I care for my son that have severe autism amoung other things. I love my son and this will be my job until my dying day. The problem is that my son and I don’t have a home. We’re always moving, sleeping on relatives couches. Living in neighborhoods that are not safe and run down because the rent is cheap. My son likes to just sit out in the yard and get some freash air but I can’t allow him to go out because there is just to much criminals walking by and I am afraid for his safety. Here’s the thing. I want to bid on a house that I saw on the Hud website but right now it is just wishful thinking because I don’t have the money. I need financial donations to help me achieve this peice of my American dream. If I can’t get some kind of financial help, Here is where my son and I was stay. I am even embarrass by writing this because as I stated earlier, I am a proud woman. Raising my children. I struggled proudly and quietly and would’ve done so for ever except I need a safe place for me and my son to live. No one on this site know who I am and that is a good thing because other wise I waould be to embarrass to post this. I don’t expect to really get any help by posting this because I know that almost everyone is having some kind of struggles and the rich amoung us really don’t care. I stumbled apon this site by accident and since I’m feeling sort of down. I just thought that I would vent some of my struggles and frustrations.
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Hello
I desperately need financial assistance to cover my debt of approx R 200 000 South African rands. My problems started when my marriage went down the drain after I found out that my husband has been cheating on me with someone else’s wife for quite sometime. By the time I found out our small business we had, had to be closed down, our savings was all gone, we lost our home and vehicles. This was very heartbreaking for me as this was the last thing I expected to happen to us as I have always stood by him through thick and thin, helped him with his business, caring for our two daughters and just been the good wife by his side. I decided to move to another town as the hurt was too much. I now have a job as a receptionist which only pays me R 4000-00 South African rand per month. I also try to sell cake and some veggies on weekends to make extra money.
We are renting a property that cost us R2 500-00 per month. Then there are the normal bills for water and electricity, food??? Petrol to work, school fees etc. My youngest is now in grade 11. I would like for her to finish her matric/grade 12 with pride next year. My husband eventually realized he made a mistake and asked me to forgive him and try again which as a Christian and love my husband very much I did. we are back together but we are struggling to make ends meet as he could not find a job and we had to borrow here and there to survive. I can’t afford to even buy clothes for my girl’s with cash and bought on credit, I try to cook decent meals like we use to have but it is difficult without enough money. I feel sorry for my kids when they ask me for something nice or even if they ask to just go for a picnic. My eldest daughter is 22 and is engaged to get married. I can’t even give her a proper wedding! My heart breaks for her. My kids and I don’t deserve this, we did not ask for this to happen.
What can I do or is there someone out there that can help me. I just want our happy life as a wonderful loving family that we were back again.I know that we can make a success with our marriage and home again as I believe and trust in the Lord. The main priority for me is for us to be debt free and once again own a home of our own. We do have a small piece of land 315m² that was saved during the time our marriage failed, we can build a home on there if we can only find the money. Approximately R 500 000-00. I know this is a lot but anything to get us started will be a great help. I want my daughters to be proud and respect their father again as we must leave the past behind us and carry on living our lives. We do not qualify for loans or bonds at this stage. I can be contacted via e-mail if you wish to help me e-mail address is dandrisha@yahoo.com
Regards
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